Most newbies to the swinger scene have this preconception in their heads that they have to swap their partners at a swinger party. The truth is that nobody will force you to do something that you don't feel comfortable with. So there is really no need to worry about swapping partners at every sex party that you attend. Adults mostly visit these kinds of parties for a variety of reasons: having fun and sex is the most popular reason. Others who tend to be shyer just come to explore, enjoy the swingers party atmosphere and get acquainted with people for future dates.
The following rules will help you:
* Always be at the party on time.* Got an invitation to the party? Then don't forget to reply and say if you're bringing a guest.* You don't have to jump into the action immediately, just try to relax and start a conversation with someone with whom you even can find from dating sites on net.* Safe sex is a must at adult parties. By using condoms you show a partner that you respect him/her and take care of his/her health. It is the easiest and the best way to show your respect to a partner.* Be clean and tidy: take care of your personal hygiene.* Keep your personal belongings safe: keep an eye on your purse, jewelry and cell phone.* Bring your own personal care items. If you decide to take a shower, you need your own towel, soap, shampoo, hairbrush, toothbrush, underwear, cologne and so on.* Take care of newbies: Your adult friends feel shy and nervous. Make them comfortable by explaining that everyone starts out as a newbie and know how they feel.
Enjoy with swingers club have fun
* Don't be pushy. If someone refuses making out with you then leave them alone.* Don't be scared to say "No" to a person you are not interested in. You came to the swinger party to have a good time.* "No means no": it is one of the main rules of the swingers dating etiquette.* Never disturb people when they are swinging! It's annoying.* If somebody diverts other people from having a good time tell the hosts about it. They will quickly come to take care of the situation.* Taking alcoholic beverages and drugs: Swinger parties are there to have a good time not to consume alcohol or drugs. You may drink a bit to relax, but if you want to be invited to other adult parties it would be better for you to refuse taking drugs at the party.* About BYOB (bring your own booze): if it's that kind of party then stick to your own drink and don't take any body else's drink.* Do not take pictures or videos without the hosts' permission.* Do not forget that you are a guest, so behave like a guest.* Non Swinging friends: don't invite them to the swinger party, they may be shocked and other members of the party can be embarrassed because of your adult club friends reaction.* Thank your hosts: don't forget to thank the hosts of the party. They might even invite you to the next party because they like your manners.* Have fun: you come to the party to have a good time! So, enjoy being at the party!
For couples sex specifically:
* Come and leave the party together (with your partner).* Consult with your spouse before joining any other couple or group of people.* Do not argue with your partner at the party. Leave the party, if you cannot find a solution to your problem.
The difference between a swinger party and swingers club
Many people think that a swinger party and a swingers club is the same thing but they are not. When a swinger house party is arranged by a host, they can invite anybody that they like. The hosts and guests of this party don't have to be member of any swingers club.
On the other hand when a swinger party is organised by a swingers club, you can be sure that only member of the club will attend this party.
Most of us are afraid to try something new and unfamiliar. In life you can fantasise about something and then contemplate your whole life if you should do it or you could reject all your fears and go do what you've been dreaming about for so long.
Good Luck on making your choice!
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