Yes, there are a disproportionate number of black women, men, blacks, and could be the reason you are still single, but let's be honest, you have your serial dater with men and misfortunes are not due to gender imbalance. If the reason you're still single! Now, before I get mad at me and throw your computer out the window, let me explain.
It is very easy to blame external forces for inanimate relational drought. Nobody likes to think that we live in a routine of self-created. Many black women have to walk quite aware that mistakes are responsible for their own relationship and if I could change some things, success would be to accelerate their path.
1. Not Meet Mr. Right
It is understood that there is no such thing as perfect! Unfortunately, black women are inundated with images of Boris Kopje and thoughts on the game Darwin unconsciously waiting for the guy on the street has the same appeal. Black women are accustomed to talk of a beauty salon what a person is they end up creating a caricature of the Disney film of a real person and it becomes dogmatic, to find someone with the required performances. Inevitably, when you meet Tyrone the road, are discouraged because their expectations are high, even Tyrone is a really good guy. Donna, here some advice ... charts!
2. Just Can not Pick
Like a moth drawn to a campfire, who gravitate toward the "bad guys" and combusted too regularly. Consider this; a team of college football championship is the culmination of the exploration and courting the best recruits. Coach travels the country to find the best talent and stay until he finds the next Newton Cam. He carefully assembles a winning team with an emphasis on the value of each individual recruit. Now think of the children of ten years I have left. Think about your strengths, weaknesses, and reflect on why and how the relationship is dissolved.
3. Overly Independent
It was a cartoon character with amazing skills. She was very strong and has a sword that could become a super-unstoppable. She was the embodiment of independent, because it did not take any crap from anyone. Although She-Ra was intensely pleasurable to watch on TV, I do not go out with a lot of fun. She-Ra would not allow a man to open the car door and certainly not allow a man to pay for their food. Date is displayed to show their ability to spam supple and communicate with animals and would underestimate the date of small contributions from the men.
4. Men Only Like Sex with Him
I must admit I am a sucker for a good novel. I tend to early fall and quickly, which is probably why ended up marrying at age 17. Most guys are exactly the opposite of me. Boys tend to regard the commitment as if it were the plague. Not that it is totally opposed to the idea, I feel like a target commitment should be gradual rather than an emergency stop first.
5. Report Mistakes All Guy's
They are bitter and sour is a state of mind. Unfortunately, you're the governor of that state. Sure, you have a reason to be upset. You have been lied to, betrayed, abandoned and / or abuse. Ex was a scoundrel and his unspeakable things to you. Hurt you deeply and you are still scars. There's only one problem, a stormy relationship ended when he was about twenty years. Have you been in ten years to heal and you're still hurts, as if the wound was just done. Of course, you will never admit that have not recovered from the break, but the evidence of emotional stasis comes out when you meet a new person.