Sex is a natural process, between two people, and if you feel ready for entering the next step, there are things you should consider. First two persons become friends and start to understand each other; one day they feel that they are too close to each other that their sexual feeling start to grow up.
Think whether you have been in a one-on-one relationship long enough to get to really know each other. Do you honestly care for and about each other, and do you really love him? If you feel the pangs of love for each other, it is normal that you may feel like taking the next step and entering into an intimate adult dating relationship.
Analysis your personal standards and stick with them until you have further thought about being sexually active. Do not bow under outside or peer pressure. Decide if you've changed your mind about being intimate. Take your time throughout the thought process. You are under no timetable. You have a lifetime ahead of you.
Enjoy sex dating with your lover
Make a decision what kinds of sexual behavior you would consider when you are for sex dating with him. Intercourse may not be right for you at this time, since you may want to wait until later or even until marriage for that. Consider your options, since the subject of "sex" covers a lot of territory. Make sure your boyfriend knows where you draw the line. At this time, giving him a slow hand job or blow job may allow you intimacy with your boyfriend until you are ready for something else.
Bring up the subject when you two are together in a private setting. When kissing your boyfriend in the car as you watch the sun go down or on the back porch swing when no one else is around, for examples, ask him if he would like a hand job or blow job. Sometimes "action speaks louder than words", don’t start to play as swingers dating because it can be harmful you both. If you would rather just show him, unzip his pants and continue with what you have in mind.
Want to be wild with your adult date
If it's your first time, relax. This is meant to be fun, not stressful. If it doesn't work out the first time, you can always try again. Don't worry if you don't know exactly what to do. You can always playfully ask your partner what they would like you to do. Be sure to offer eye contact but don't stare.
If you're engaging in any type of sexual relationship, consider using proper contraception, such as a condom.
Don't force the issue. Being too pushy can be rude and gives the impression that you want sex no matter what. If the other person isn't interested, you'll need to wait until they are.
Respect the other person. If it begins to feel weird to them and they ask you to stop, you should, and this will make them feel more comfortable with you.